Also, stop judging when you know nothing about what that person has been through in their life. Just because someone lives life differently than you, it does not make you "better" than them. I recently have been judged(silently) by those that are supposed to love me. And I am witnessing these same people pass judgment on someone I care deeply about. Fine if it is not "right" for you...you are not them and they are not you! People have different needs and wants. We are adults, not children, not teenagers...let's please act like it. If someone bothers you to the point you find it necessary to always vent about them, maybe it is time to remove them from your life, at least temporarily. It is not that hard, even if it is family. Even family can destroy the beautiful blooms that someone is capable of creating. In fact, I sometimes believe family is more destructive to the blooms.
I am on an incredibly difficult journey in my life right now...the last thing I need is to be surrounded by the sideways looks and the "all knowing" glances. No one knows exactly what I feel or how I think. No one can decide what I need, but me. If you are not getting something that you need from me, then you can show yourself to the exit door of my life. If you want to remain, then come talk to me. Because after I get the glances enough times, I tend to lock the door and close the curtains so I don't have to see them anymore. One simple truth about me...I do not handle confrontation of any kind well. This is something I am trying to work on, but it does not come easy when you spent years and years of your life being abused and neglected.
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